Sandra sacrificed true love and settled for a good provider. She was betrayed in a prior relationship by a pretty boy/womanizer. She made a vow to place money and security before love. I’m not giving my heart away again, she thought to herself. Pay my bills and keep it moving. I’ll let you know when I feel like being bothered. Sandra’s ex-husband Phats was recently released from prison. In his mind she was the reason he spent the last two years in jail.